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Comment on the White Paper

The recent White Paper, Valuing People: A New Strategy for Learning Disability for the 21st Century, is to be welcomed for acknowledging that support for parents with learning difficulties is 'patchy and undeveloped'. Indeed, Valuing People is distinguished as the first official policy statement in the UK to recognise that there are people with learning difficulties who are parents too. Their recognition is important because embracing the key principles of rights, independence, choice and inclusion, rightly promoted by the White Paper, will undoubtedly mean that more people with learning difficulties will make the same decision as their fellow citizens to become a parent.

That said, the White Paper falls way short of honestly following through its vision, that every 'individual should have the support and opportunity to be the person he or she wants to be' (para.2.1), in the case of those who choose to be parents.

The call for Directors of Social Services 'to ensure effective partnership working' between children's and adult's teams ­ an appeal made without incentives, guidance or sanctions ­ is woefully inadequate, in terms of imagination and resources alike, as a response to the yawning gaps in support that exists for parents.

Likewise, the limp admission that 'further work' is needed to help staff use the new Framework for the Assessment of Children in Need and their Families, in order to 'ensure that assessments result in appropriate services', completely fails to address the growing evidence of injustice perpetrated against parents with learning difficulties and their children by a child protection process now almost fully geared to policing as opposed to supporting families and a welfare system that is worryingly likely to harm those it is supposed to help. Until we pay as much attention to the destructive effects of system abuse as to the curse of child abuse, parents with learning difficulties will continue to receive rough justice and their children will get a raw deal.

The White Paper has established a principled foundation on which to build for the future. It is evident, however, that parents with learning difficulties present a challenge to this strategic vision by highlighting the uncomfortable gap between the values so clearly set out in the White Paper and the means willed to achieve them.

 

The Adoption and Children Act 2002

The Adoption and Children Act 2002 presents a major threat to the security of families headed by a parent or parents with learning difficulties.

The new approach to adoption embodied in the Act heralds the biggest overhaul of adoption law in over 25 years. A key aim of the raft of reforms it has introduced is to speed up the adoption process. Social Services Departments are being exhorted to see adoption as 'a positive, responsible choice'. The Government is committed to bringing about a 40 per cent increase in the rate of adoptions. Individual councils will be faced with performance targets for the number of adoptions they are expected to achieve. These targets will comprise one of the indicators in the system of Performance Rating that the Government intends to use to reward star performing councils and 'name and shame' the poor ones. A new Adoption and Permanence Taskforce has been set up to work with 'under-performing' local authorities to help them meet their targets.

These measures create a system hungry for adoptable children. They threaten to distort the incentives that drive social workers' decisions about what is in the best interests of children from vulnerable families. The 'looked after' system is full of older children, especially boys, for whom there is a chronic scarcity of prospective adopters. Hitting targets is more likely given a steady supply of younger, more eligible children. Why work hard and spend money supporting families in need when you can win more resources and avoid being shamed by placing their children for adoption? This calculus of despair is particularly loaded against families headed by a parent or parents with learning difficulties.

Parents with learning difficulties already face a high risk of having their children removed because the odds are stacked against them. The Government's own Social Services Inspectorate has shown how the hold of such parents over their children is weakened by 'a "professional knows best" culture' characterised by insufficient knowledge, poor assessments, an over-zealous attitude to risk, a lack of awareness of disability equality issues, fragmented services, and serious shortcomings in service provision.

Freeing up the adoption process, without first tackling these known defects in family support that contribute to children entering the 'looked after' system in the first place, marks a further turn of the screw against parents with learning difficulties. The Government is pumping new funding into better post-adoption supports for adoptive families without first plugging the support gap that undermines the coping abilities of birth families. Under the new approach to adoption, councils are required to provide a full package of support services, including financial help if appropriate, to adoptive families. Yet too often it is precisely the absence of such supports that triggers the crisis leading to children being removed from their natural parents.

And so we end up where a young mother with learning difficulties, coping alone with three young children under five, in substandard housing on a rough estate, with no support from family and precious little help from the services, is driven by depression, and a lack of respite from the never-ending pressures in her life, into giving up her eldest son, who's running wild for want of a bit of discipline, as the price for holding on to the other two, only for him to be adopted by a middle-class professional couple who immediately qualify for 18 weeks paid adoption leave.

The Adoption and Children Act reflects the greater political clout of adoptive parents as against poor, disadvantaged and disabled parents. Birth families comprising a parent or parents with learning difficulties are least likely to fight for their rights or attract public sympathy for their cause. They are in no position to defend their interests or the interests of their children. The new approach to adoption makes it even more likely that they will lose out.



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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